Welcome! I've had so many eye-opening life experiences so I thought I'd share them with you. The menu to the left will take you to the Main Blog Page. Choose the category you'd like to read. Feel free to share your thoughts in the "comments" sections at the bottom of each post. Use the "share" buttons to send posts to your peeps. Let me know if you'd like to share a story as well. Thanks and enjoy!
All tagged marriage
I think it's important to know what qualities you want in a person you are going to spend your life with right? When you really think about it, that means every day, day in and day out...for 50 + years. Geez, that's a lot of life to live with someone who doesn't embody qualities you love, respect and admire.
I spent most of my life unaware of the difference between intimacy and sex and how both are inter-related. It wasn't until a few years into my marriage that I realized something was terribly wrong.
Hindsight is 20/20 right? Self-awareness, self-acceptance, confidence are the most important things I wish I had been armed with before I got married. I think if I had done these
A journey through my relationships "past" and the things I've learned in order to change my relationships "future".
At 40-something years old, I realized the root cause of my unhappiness was my need to please others. I had a disease and it was killing me. People-pleasers are terrified of saying "NO" to anyone. People-pleasers have an insatiable need to be liked and live for hearing the words "You're so nice". This is my story of the moment I realized I had an addiction and what I did to start changing my life.
