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Should I Change My Name After Divorce?

Why do women take their husband’s last name? Are you familiar with the word Coverture?

It means:

noun

  1. 1.

    LITERARY

    protective or concealing covering.

  2. 2.

    HISTORICAL•LAW

    the legal status of a married woman, considered to be under her husband's protection and authority.

I never really wanted to change my name when I got married the first time around but I did. From that point forward I didn’t feel like myself. I felt like I was “his”, meaning my then husband.

Cleaning out the basement the other day I came across my old wedding album and a bunch of feelings came with it. I kept it around until my daughter got older in case she wanted to keep some of the pictures.

She doesn't btw so it's en route to a landfill.